With or without her approval, I decided my mom's livingspace needed a humble make over. So I moved some furniture, rearranged some rugs and created space and nice views. To soften up the shock, I made her a summerbouquet with big white Dahlia's, little lilac flowers(flox) and some leaves from her own wisteria. The trick worked. She's home again, and yes in shock about the changes I made but willing to give it a few days of trying and getting used to.